How to Prepare for a Massage Session

Preparing for a massage does not require a special routine. A few clear details about your comfort, preferences, and health can help the therapist tailor the session to you. This is especially useful when you have areas you would like to avoid, prefer a particular position, or need extra support. You can share only what feels relevant, ask questions before the session begins, and change your mind at any point. Your comfort and consent should guide the experience.

Share What Helps You Feel Comfortable

Before the massage begins, mention what you hope to get from the session. You might want gentle relaxation, attention to a particular area, or a session that avoids certain techniques. Describe pressure in simple terms, such as light, moderate, or firm, and know that you can request an adjustment during the massage.

Let the therapist know about relevant health changes, recent procedures, areas of pain, or medical devices that could affect positioning or touch. In oncology-informed massage, details about treatment and areas of sensitivity can help guide safer choices. You do not need to explain more than you are comfortable sharing; ask how the information will be used if you have questions.

Discuss Sensitive Areas and Boundaries

Name any areas you would like the therapist to avoid or approach cautiously. These might include tender skin, a surgical site, a port or other medical device, areas affected by radiation, or parts of your body that feel emotionally sensitive. You can also say that you would rather decide about an area during the session.

Ask how draping works and what will remain covered. A professional therapist should explain the plan, obtain your consent, and respect a request to pause, change position, or stop. You do not have to justify a boundary. If a question feels unclear, take time to discuss it before getting on the table.

Choose Clothing and Positioning

Wear clothes that are easy to change out of and back into. The therapist can explain whether to undress to your comfort level; you should never feel pressured to remove more clothing than you choose. If you prefer to remain partly or fully dressed, ask whether the session can be adapted with clothing on.

Tell the therapist if lying face down, turning over, or staying in one position may be uncomfortable. Side-lying, seated, or supported positions may be options depending on your needs and the therapist’s approach. Mention any difficulty getting onto or off the table, and request pillows or bolsters for comfort before the session starts.

Arrive Ready to Communicate

Allow a little time to settle in and complete any intake questions without rushing. Bring a list of medications or treatment details if you think they will help you explain relevant concerns. You can also write down questions or preferences beforehand, especially if they are difficult to remember in the moment.

During the massage, give brief feedback when something feels too strong, uncomfortable, or simply not right for you. You can request more or less pressure, a different position, or a pause. Checking in is part of tailoring the session, not an interruption.

A comfortable massage starts with honest, practical communication. Share relevant health information, set boundaries around sensitive areas, and ask for clothing or positioning options that work for you. You can adjust your preferences throughout the session. If you have questions about preparing for oncology-informed massage, contact Stillwater Oncology Massage before booking.